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Daddy, why do we have

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to eat eggs at breakfast time?

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Mm, I don't know, baby.

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Why do you think we eat eggs

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why do you think we eat eggs

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in the morning?

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Maybe because we have

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to eat the eggs early

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before the chickens

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see that they're missing.

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Wow, Alexis,

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that is a really good answer,

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sweetie.

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That is exactly why

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I no longer eat anything

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with a face.

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With a face.

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I don't want any mommy animals

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mad at me.

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I don't mind.

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I don't know any chickens

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personally.

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Personally.

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Give it up for your boy.

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I was just tagged

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as the newest member

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of the fresh five fraternity,

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of the fresh five fraternity,

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or as we call it,

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the fuh-fuh-fuh.

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Do I look any different?

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Uh...

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Uh...

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Slightly less intelligent

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than last night.

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Yeah, but I really--

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I don't understand

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why you're so excited.

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I mean, being a part

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of the fresh five

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of the fresh five

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is really nothing

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but a popularity contest.

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And guess who won.

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And guess who won.

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So look,

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every year, five cool juniors

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tag five cool freshmen

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to carry on the cool legacy.

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Mm-hmm.

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Mm-hmm.

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Thanks to my charm,

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good looks,

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and keen sense of style,

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I made the cut.

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Yeah, but you were

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Yeah, but you were

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already cool, Keenan.

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I mean, you're

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the class president, right?

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Yeah, but being a part

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of the fresh five

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takes me to the coolest level

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takes me to the coolest level

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of cool-osity.

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Well, I think

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it's ridiculous.

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I mean,

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it's not even a real club.

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You guys

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don't even have jackets.

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Oh, speaking of jackets,

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dad, I need some money

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to get some of my

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fresh five gear.

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Fresh five gear.

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What about the money

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in your savings account?

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That's for the future.

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I need money right now.

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After all, I'm a fuh-fuh guy.

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After all, I'm a fuh-fuh guy.

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Oh, well, in that case,

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fuh-fuh-forget it.

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[Laughs]

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[Funky music]

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Oh, she can't wait.

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Oh, she can't wait.

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All right, Dr. Reed,

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you are now officially confirmed

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you are now officially confirmed

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to speak on the panel

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at the Westchester

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woman's empowerment conference.

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Woman's empowerment conference.

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Oh, wow.

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This is so good.

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Gosh, I finally

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get an opportunity

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to speak about women

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and relationships.

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Yeah.

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And they're really

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treating you very nicely.

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You get lunch, a parking pass,

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you get lunch, a parking pass,

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and one free ticket.

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Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

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I thought I got

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two free tickets.

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I invited glenda

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I invited glenda

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and her husband.

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Oh, I forgot.

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Glenda canceled.

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Glenda canceled.

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I would take the ticket,

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you know?

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And then I'm thinking about

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giving the other one

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to miss jimenez.

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To miss jimenez.

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Ms. Helen,

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what makes you think

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you can just give

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my tickets away?

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I said, I was going

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I said, I was going

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to give it to miss jimenez.

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Then you can take it

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as a charitable donation.

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As a charitable donation.

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Ah.

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That's a good point, Ms. Helen.

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Well done.

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I see what you're doing there.

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Morning, ladies.

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Morning, ladies.

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Oh, good morning.

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Hello, Gabby.

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Hi.

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Hey, I am speaking

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at this conference this week,

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at this conference this week,

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and I'm on a panel

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about love and relationships.

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And I thought

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you might want to come.

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You might want to come.

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Oh, do you need me there

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for moral support?

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You don't see it, do you?

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You don't see it, do you?

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See what?

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Well, Gabby,

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maybe it'll be good for you,

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you know, with you and Anthony

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you know, with you and Anthony

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breaking up and you're,

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you know, trying to do things

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differently, remember?

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Carla, I'm fine.

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Carla, I'm fine.

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I've been meditating.

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I've gotten in touch

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with my spirit.

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I've done some research

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on my family history

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and watched

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some really good infomercials.

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Some really good infomercials.

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And how's that

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working out for you?

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Yeah, I'm gonna

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get there early

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so I can get a good seat.

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So I can get a good seat.

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Very, very good idea.

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Everyone's looking at me

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different, right?

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You see it, right?

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'Cause you look

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like an idiot.

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Like an idiot.

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I'm just saying...

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Yo, Keenan, welcome

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Yo, Keenan, welcome

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to the fresh five, man.

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Congratulations.

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Yo, Braxton, man,

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when I heard, I was like--

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when I heard, I was like--

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I was like, "what?"

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Dude, this is the craziest thing

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that's ever happened to me.

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Know what I mean?

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You know what I mean?

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You know what I mean?

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Okay, freshman,

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I'm gonna need you

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to bring all that down,

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like, 1,000.

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Got it, got it.

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Yeah, bringing it down,

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yeah, bringing it down,

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bringing it down.

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Uh, look, a couple of us

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were gonna hang out

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by the gym for a minute.

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You want to come?

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Fo' sho'.

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I mean--i mean, for sure.

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I mean--i mean, for sure.

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For sure.

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Hey, kaci, you were

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on that save the planet

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committee, right?

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Yeah.

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Can you show me

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Can you show me

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where the recycling bin is

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so I can get rid of this,

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sweetheart?

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Uh, no, but your new

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fresh five friend can.

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Fresh five friend can.

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Look out, Braxton.

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Keenan!

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Get that out of here.

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Get that out of here.

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The recycling bin

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is the other way.

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Okay, I'm done

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with my half of the dishes.

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You enjoy that

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burnt lasagna pan.

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Burnt lasagna pan.

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[Phone beeps]

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Guess who's psyched about

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going to Braxton's party

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this weekend.

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Oh, huh.

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Guess who doesn't care.

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Guess who doesn't care.

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Seriously, I mean,

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why would you want

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to hang around a group of guys

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that you have to act different

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to get them to like you?

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To get them to like you?

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I mean...

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Okay, watch.

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Yo, Braxton!

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What?

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Know what I mean?

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Do you even know what you mean?

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Look, this isn't

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Look, this isn't

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just for me, all right?

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See, you're invited too.

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So if I'm in,

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you're in too, okay?

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You're in too, okay?

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You're gonna be popular

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despite yourself.

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Okay, Keenan, how can I

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get you to understand

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get you to understand

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that being popular

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is not important to me?

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I mean, I'm captain

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of freshman volleyball,

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where everybody looks up to me.

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And I might've scored

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the game-winning shot

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in last week's basketball game.

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And yeah, there were cheers.

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And yeah, there were cheers.

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But who cares?

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I'm happy being me,

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a buzzer beater.

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A buzzer beater.

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Yeah, well,

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when you're 50 years old

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and live in a house

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with a whole bunch of cats,

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are you gonna be happy then?

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Delighted.

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Delighted.

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Oh, hey, Ms. Helen,

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I already got our gift bags.

298
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Oh.

299
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There is purple lip gloss,

300
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There is purple lip gloss,

301
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a work it woman pedometer,

302
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and a panic whistle

303
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from "stop, this

304
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is not your purse" campaign.

305
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Is not your purse" campaign.

306
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[Laughs]

307
00:06:07,950 --> 00:06:09,410
Oh, look,

308
00:06:09,494 --> 00:06:11,164
there's Dr. Armondi Stokes.

309
00:06:11,245 --> 00:06:11,995
They call him "the love master."

310
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They call him "the love master."

311
00:06:13,247 --> 00:06:13,917
Oh, he's cute.

312
00:06:13,998 --> 00:06:14,618
He's on Carla's panel?

313
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Uh, if he can't me find someone,

314
00:06:17,168 --> 00:06:17,998
maybe I can help him find me.

315
00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:18,750
Maybe I can help him find me.

316
00:06:18,836 --> 00:06:20,246
He's on the best-seller list:

317
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How to get him,

318
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from a him who knows.

319
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Dr. Stokes.

320
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Dr. Stokes.

321
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Dr. Stokes.

322
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Miss Helen, wait.

323
00:06:26,052 --> 00:06:27,432
I want to try my lip gloss.

324
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Helen Wilson.

325
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I am a huge fan of yours.

326
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I am a huge fan of yours.

327
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I love this book.

328
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Oh.

329
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Would you?

330
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Of course.

331
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Thank you.

332
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[Clearing throat]

333
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[Clearing throat]

334
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Oh, this is my associate,

335
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Gabriella jimenez.

336
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Gabriella jimenez.

337
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Yes.

338
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Nice to meet you.

339
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How are you?

340
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Your Waterloo.

341
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She really needs

342
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to read your book twice.

343
00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:48,280
To read your book twice.

344
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I plan to.

345
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Listen, I already got it

346
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this morning.

347
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Would you mind signing it,

348
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please?

349
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Oh, not a problem at all.

350
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Oh, not a problem at all.

351
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Nice tie.

352
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Thank you.

353
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Hi, guys.

354
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Hi.

355
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Oh, hi.

356
00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:00,040
Oh, hi.

357
00:07:00,128 --> 00:07:01,208
How are you?

358
00:07:01,295 --> 00:07:01,795
Hi, Dr. Stokes.

359
00:07:01,879 --> 00:07:03,299
I'm Dr. Carla Reed.

360
00:07:03,381 --> 00:07:03,881
Oh, Dr. Reed.

361
00:07:03,965 --> 00:07:04,585
We're speaking together

362
00:07:04,674 --> 00:07:05,094
on the panel today.

363
00:07:05,174 --> 00:07:05,634
Yes, yes, tha--yes.

364
00:07:05,716 --> 00:07:05,996
Wow.

365
00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:06,470
Wow.

366
00:07:06,551 --> 00:07:08,051
Oh, would you like me

367
00:07:08,136 --> 00:07:09,296
to sign your book as well?

368
00:07:09,387 --> 00:07:09,887
Oh, no, I actually

369
00:07:09,971 --> 00:07:10,601
didn't buy one yet.

370
00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:11,600
Oh, that's okay.

371
00:07:11,681 --> 00:07:12,001
I'll sign your folder.

372
00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:12,600
I'll sign your folder.

373
00:07:12,682 --> 00:07:12,852
Oh.

374
00:07:12,932 --> 00:07:14,482
It's Reed, r-e-e-d?

375
00:07:14,559 --> 00:07:17,979
Yes, with a "d" and an "r"

376
00:07:18,062 --> 00:07:19,112
and two "e"s in between.

377
00:07:19,188 --> 00:07:19,938
All right.

378
00:07:20,022 --> 00:07:20,522
Thank you so much.

379
00:07:20,606 --> 00:07:21,066
You're welcome.

380
00:07:21,149 --> 00:07:22,439
Thank you.

381
00:07:22,525 --> 00:07:23,355
Dr. Reed, Dr. Stokes,

382
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we're about to get started.

383
00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:24,030
We're about to get started.

384
00:07:24,110 --> 00:07:25,360
Oh, great, okay.

385
00:07:25,444 --> 00:07:26,034
Nice meeting you ladies.

386
00:07:26,112 --> 00:07:28,032
Good luck.

387
00:07:28,114 --> 00:07:28,414
Thank you.

388
00:07:28,489 --> 00:07:29,999
I was talking to Dr. Stokes.

389
00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:31,700
I was talking to Dr. Stokes.

390
00:07:31,784 --> 00:07:33,124
That's a good-looking man.

391
00:07:33,202 --> 00:07:33,702
Okay.

392
00:07:33,786 --> 00:07:34,536
You know, if I wasn't

393
00:07:34,620 --> 00:07:36,000
with torian, he'd be in trouble.

394
00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:36,660
With torian, he'd be in trouble.

395
00:07:36,747 --> 00:07:38,247
Welcome, ladies.

396
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I'm Angela Mason,

397
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your moderator today.

398
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Our guest speakers on the panel

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are radio host

400
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are radio host

401
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reverend Timothy Bristol,

402
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known for his interactive

403
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couples video game,

404
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couples video game,

405
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love him like the lord.

406
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[Applause]

407
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Best-selling author

408
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Dr. Armondi Stokes,

409
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Dr. Armondi Stokes,

410
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because we all want to know

411
00:07:56,809 --> 00:07:57,979
what those men are thinking,

412
00:07:58,060 --> 00:07:59,150
right?

413
00:07:59,228 --> 00:07:59,558
[Applause]

414
00:07:59,645 --> 00:07:59,995
And Dr. Carla Reed,

415
00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,440
and Dr. Carla Reed,

416
00:08:02,523 --> 00:08:03,403
who's here to let us all know--

417
00:08:03,482 --> 00:08:03,652
Hi.

418
00:08:03,733 --> 00:08:05,193
Hi, there.

419
00:08:05,276 --> 00:08:05,996
Hello.

420
00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:06,360
Hello.

421
00:08:06,444 --> 00:08:07,534
Oh, wow.

422
00:08:07,612 --> 00:08:08,702
Here I am.

423
00:08:08,779 --> 00:08:11,119
So I have so much information

424
00:08:11,199 --> 00:08:11,999
that I want to give you

425
00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:12,280
that I want to give you

426
00:08:12,366 --> 00:08:13,116
and so much

427
00:08:13,201 --> 00:08:13,661
that I want to share.

428
00:08:13,743 --> 00:08:15,413
Could we share that mic

429
00:08:15,494 --> 00:08:16,334
so I could finish

430
00:08:16,412 --> 00:08:17,002
introducing you?

431
00:08:17,079 --> 00:08:17,999
Oh, yes, of course.

432
00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:18,160
Oh, yes, of course.

433
00:08:18,247 --> 00:08:18,537
Oops, sorry.

434
00:08:18,623 --> 00:08:20,793
Here you go.

435
00:08:20,875 --> 00:08:23,535
Be right back.

436
00:08:23,628 --> 00:08:23,998
So to all my single friends,

437
00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:26,960
so to all my single friends,

438
00:08:27,048 --> 00:08:27,588
don't buy into the idea

439
00:08:27,673 --> 00:08:29,133
that just because

440
00:08:29,217 --> 00:08:29,997
you're by yourself,

441
00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:30,640
you're by yourself,

442
00:08:30,718 --> 00:08:32,508
you have problems or issues

443
00:08:32,595 --> 00:08:34,005
that need to be fixed.

444
00:08:34,096 --> 00:08:35,346
The fact of the matter is,

445
00:08:35,431 --> 00:08:36,001
we are all worthy of love.

446
00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:39,480
We are all worthy of love.

447
00:08:39,560 --> 00:08:42,000
And realizing that

448
00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:42,400
and realizing that

449
00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:46,480
is the beginning of finding it.

450
00:08:46,567 --> 00:08:46,817
[Applause]

451
00:08:46,901 --> 00:08:48,001
Thank you.

452
00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:48,150
Thank you.

453
00:08:48,236 --> 00:08:49,236
Thank you.

454
00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,410
Thank you so much.

455
00:08:53,032 --> 00:08:54,002
Um...

456
00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:55,580
Um...

457
00:08:55,660 --> 00:08:56,870
I'm one of the few men here,

458
00:08:56,953 --> 00:08:58,583
so, ladies, please be nice.

459
00:08:58,663 --> 00:09:00,003
[Laughter]

460
00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:01,670
[Laughter]

461
00:09:01,749 --> 00:09:02,629
But I do want to know

462
00:09:02,708 --> 00:09:04,038
who came here to find out

463
00:09:04,126 --> 00:09:05,126
how to get a man,

464
00:09:05,211 --> 00:09:05,631
from a man who knows.

465
00:09:05,711 --> 00:09:06,001
[Applause]

466
00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:06,590
[Applause]

467
00:09:06,671 --> 00:09:08,631
All right.

468
00:09:08,714 --> 00:09:11,224
Let's be real, ladies.

469
00:09:11,300 --> 00:09:12,000
You don't want to waste

470
00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:12,550
you don't want to waste

471
00:09:12,635 --> 00:09:13,635
your pretty years

472
00:09:13,719 --> 00:09:15,469
on self-reflection

473
00:09:15,554 --> 00:09:16,764
and introspection.

474
00:09:16,847 --> 00:09:17,997
You can go into the audience

475
00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:18,980
you can go into the audience

476
00:09:19,058 --> 00:09:19,728
like that?

477
00:09:19,809 --> 00:09:20,479
No one told me that.

478
00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:21,729
I could've done that.

479
00:09:21,811 --> 00:09:22,521
You see,

480
00:09:22,603 --> 00:09:23,483
I grew up in a house

481
00:09:23,562 --> 00:09:24,002
full of women,

482
00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:25,270
full of women,

483
00:09:25,356 --> 00:09:28,066
five sisters and a mother.

484
00:09:28,150 --> 00:09:29,530
And you know what?

485
00:09:29,610 --> 00:09:30,000
They always had a man.

486
00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:31,240
They always had a man.

487
00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:32,030
Uh-huh.

488
00:09:32,113 --> 00:09:33,033
And you know why?

489
00:09:33,114 --> 00:09:33,664
Why?

490
00:09:33,739 --> 00:09:34,159
Because they had

491
00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,000
a bag of man tricks,

492
00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:36,780
a bag of man tricks,

493
00:09:36,867 --> 00:09:38,487
a big ol' bag.

494
00:09:38,577 --> 00:09:38,997
All right, if you want

495
00:09:39,078 --> 00:09:40,368
to get a man,

496
00:09:40,454 --> 00:09:41,794
you need to have a strategy,

497
00:09:41,872 --> 00:09:42,002
right?

498
00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:42,040
Right?

499
00:09:42,123 --> 00:09:43,623
You got to be stealthy,

500
00:09:43,708 --> 00:09:47,998
sneaky, and sly.

501
00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:48,210
Sneaky, and sly.

502
00:09:48,296 --> 00:09:49,666
Turn on the oven

503
00:09:49,755 --> 00:09:50,585
and practice cooking a rib roast

504
00:09:50,673 --> 00:09:53,513
in nothing but high heels

505
00:09:53,592 --> 00:09:54,002
and that smile.

506
00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:55,550
And that smile.

507
00:09:55,636 --> 00:09:57,426
You know, he's right.

508
00:09:57,513 --> 00:09:58,473
That's how I got torian.

509
00:09:58,556 --> 00:09:59,676
Only thing, it was a meatloaf.

510
00:09:59,765 --> 00:09:59,995
This is not empowering.

511
00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,560
This is not empowering.

512
00:10:02,643 --> 00:10:03,563
Okay, I'm sorry, Dr. Stokes.

513
00:10:03,644 --> 00:10:05,694
Dr. Stokes, I have issue

514
00:10:05,771 --> 00:10:06,001
with what you're sharing

515
00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:07,570
with what you're sharing

516
00:10:07,648 --> 00:10:08,438
with these women.

517
00:10:08,524 --> 00:10:10,034
See, you women always

518
00:10:10,109 --> 00:10:11,989
want to talk about issues

519
00:10:12,069 --> 00:10:13,319
and problems,

520
00:10:13,404 --> 00:10:15,034
communication.

521
00:10:15,114 --> 00:10:16,914
Ladies, let me share with you

522
00:10:16,991 --> 00:10:18,001
some foolproof tricks

523
00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:18,280
some foolproof tricks

524
00:10:18,367 --> 00:10:19,077
on how to get a man.

525
00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:21,160
I am sorry, Dr. Stokes.

526
00:10:21,245 --> 00:10:21,865
She keeps stopping him

527
00:10:21,954 --> 00:10:22,544
at the good part.

528
00:10:22,621 --> 00:10:23,711
What you are saying

529
00:10:23,789 --> 00:10:23,999
is the antithesis

530
00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:24,790
is the antithesis

531
00:10:24,874 --> 00:10:26,424
of everything that I've learned

532
00:10:26,500 --> 00:10:27,590
in all of my years

533
00:10:27,668 --> 00:10:28,418
as a therapist.

534
00:10:28,502 --> 00:10:29,422
Mm-hmm.

535
00:10:29,503 --> 00:10:30,003
I just--i don't think

536
00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:31,090
I just--i don't think

537
00:10:31,172 --> 00:10:31,712
this is the appropriate

538
00:10:31,797 --> 00:10:34,177
environment for what

539
00:10:34,258 --> 00:10:34,758
you're saying.

540
00:10:34,842 --> 00:10:36,002
Right, right.

541
00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:36,090
Right, right.

542
00:10:36,177 --> 00:10:37,217
You know, Dr. Reed,

543
00:10:37,303 --> 00:10:38,853
let's ask the audience.

544
00:10:38,929 --> 00:10:39,139
Okay.

545
00:10:39,221 --> 00:10:40,261
Okay.

546
00:10:40,348 --> 00:10:41,558
Ladies, do you want to feel

547
00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:42,000
worthy, empowered,

548
00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,890
worthy, empowered,

549
00:10:44,977 --> 00:10:46,347
and all by yourself

550
00:10:46,437 --> 00:10:47,997
with Dr. Reed?

551
00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:48,480
With Dr. Reed?

552
00:10:48,564 --> 00:10:49,024
Or do you want to get

553
00:10:49,106 --> 00:10:50,566
that good man

554
00:10:50,649 --> 00:10:52,939
with benefits by next month?

555
00:10:53,027 --> 00:10:53,277
[Applause]

556
00:10:53,361 --> 00:10:54,001
Oh!

557
00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:54,740
Oh!

558
00:10:54,820 --> 00:10:55,700
The ladies have spoken.

559
00:10:55,780 --> 00:10:58,200
[Chuckles]

560
00:10:58,282 --> 00:11:00,002
Bam.

561
00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:00,370
Bam.

562
00:11:01,786 --> 00:11:03,076
So tell me how it went.

563
00:11:03,162 --> 00:11:04,912
I was on a panel

564
00:11:04,997 --> 00:11:05,997
with this guy

565
00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:06,210
with this guy

566
00:11:06,290 --> 00:11:08,500
who was telling the women

567
00:11:08,584 --> 00:11:09,714
to be sneaky and sly

568
00:11:09,794 --> 00:11:12,004
and to cook rib roasts naked

569
00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:12,250
and to cook rib roasts naked

570
00:11:12,338 --> 00:11:13,168
to trap a man

571
00:11:13,255 --> 00:11:14,585
like it was the dark ages.

572
00:11:14,673 --> 00:11:15,633
It was nothing about self-worth

573
00:11:15,716 --> 00:11:17,676
and self-love.

574
00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:18,000
They were all just so caught up

575
00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:18,680
they were all just so caught up

576
00:11:18,761 --> 00:11:19,931
in his charm.

577
00:11:20,012 --> 00:11:20,642
And he walked into the audience,

578
00:11:20,721 --> 00:11:22,221
babe.

579
00:11:22,306 --> 00:11:23,996
Who does that?

580
00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:24,430
Who does that?

581
00:11:24,517 --> 00:11:25,097
You know, maybe the women

582
00:11:25,184 --> 00:11:25,814
thought he had a valid

583
00:11:25,893 --> 00:11:26,693
point of view.

584
00:11:26,769 --> 00:11:28,899
You can't be serious.

585
00:11:28,979 --> 00:11:29,999
It sounds like the guy

586
00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:30,150
It sounds like the guy

587
00:11:30,231 --> 00:11:30,731
was just giving them

588
00:11:30,815 --> 00:11:32,015
a different perspective.

589
00:11:32,108 --> 00:11:33,478
Look, there are some guys

590
00:11:33,567 --> 00:11:34,187
who would be impressed

591
00:11:34,276 --> 00:11:34,856
by a woman serving them dinner

592
00:11:34,944 --> 00:11:36,004
in nothing but an apron.

593
00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:36,490
In nothing but an apron.

594
00:11:36,570 --> 00:11:37,450
And there are some women

595
00:11:37,530 --> 00:11:38,070
who would be happy to do it.

596
00:11:38,155 --> 00:11:41,155
Not an apron.

597
00:11:41,242 --> 00:11:42,002
He said, and I quote,

598
00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:42,660
he said, and I quote,

599
00:11:42,743 --> 00:11:46,373
"heels and a smile."

600
00:11:46,455 --> 00:11:47,245
And even more

601
00:11:47,331 --> 00:11:48,001
would be impressed by that.

602
00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:48,080
Would be impressed by that.

603
00:11:48,165 --> 00:11:48,745
Uh.

604
00:11:48,833 --> 00:11:51,093
Plus, I remember a few

605
00:11:51,168 --> 00:11:52,668
clothing-optional dinners

606
00:11:52,753 --> 00:11:54,003
we've had, Dr. Reed.

607
00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:54,050
We've had, Dr. Reed.

608
00:11:54,130 --> 00:11:55,050
Yeah, but, Dr. Reed,

609
00:11:55,131 --> 00:11:55,801
that's different.

610
00:11:55,881 --> 00:11:59,431
Yeah, how?

611
00:11:59,510 --> 00:12:00,000
I got nothing.

612
00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:00,050
I got nothing.

613
00:12:00,136 --> 00:12:01,506
Aha.

614
00:12:01,595 --> 00:12:03,465
Dr. Stokes gave them flash.

615
00:12:03,556 --> 00:12:05,596
I gave them substance, Alex.

616
00:12:05,683 --> 00:12:06,003
Yeah, well, newsflash, babe:

617
00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,480
Yeah, well, newsflash, babe:

618
00:12:07,560 --> 00:12:08,730
Everybody's not ready

619
00:12:08,811 --> 00:12:09,731
for substance.

620
00:12:09,812 --> 00:12:10,562
I just really want

621
00:12:10,646 --> 00:12:11,146
those women to know

622
00:12:11,230 --> 00:12:12,000
that a loving relationship

623
00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:12,270
that a loving relationship

624
00:12:12,356 --> 00:12:13,066
is possible without

625
00:12:13,149 --> 00:12:13,819
gimmicks and tricks.

626
00:12:13,899 --> 00:12:17,999
I need a real-life example

627
00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:18,490
I need a real-life example

628
00:12:18,571 --> 00:12:20,701
of a relationship that works.

629
00:12:20,781 --> 00:12:22,871
Hmm.

630
00:12:26,996 --> 00:12:29,076
Why are you looking like that?

631
00:12:31,459 --> 00:12:32,289
What are you doing tomorrow,

632
00:12:32,376 --> 00:12:35,086
Alex?

633
00:12:35,171 --> 00:12:36,001
Looking good, sorita.

634
00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:36,010
Looking good, sorita.

635
00:12:36,088 --> 00:12:37,798
Yeah.

636
00:12:37,882 --> 00:12:39,382
Hey, what's up, Jessica?

637
00:12:39,467 --> 00:12:41,507
Lookin' fine, lookin' fine.

638
00:12:41,594 --> 00:12:42,004
No, we don't

639
00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:42,430
No, we don't

640
00:12:42,511 --> 00:12:43,181
think she's cute.

641
00:12:43,262 --> 00:12:45,472
I-i-i take that back.

642
00:12:45,556 --> 00:12:46,596
I got your funyons

643
00:12:46,682 --> 00:12:47,142
and your breath mints.

644
00:12:47,224 --> 00:12:47,814
Oh, good looking out,

645
00:12:47,892 --> 00:12:48,002
freshette.

646
00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:49,480
Freshette.

647
00:12:49,560 --> 00:12:50,310
Hey, come on, fellas.

648
00:12:50,394 --> 00:12:51,654
Let's roll.

649
00:12:51,729 --> 00:12:52,649
Okay, yeah, it's really not

650
00:12:52,730 --> 00:12:53,480
that bright in here.

651
00:12:53,564 --> 00:12:54,004
You don't need your glasses.

652
00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:54,520
You don't need your glasses.

653
00:12:54,607 --> 00:12:56,607
So...

654
00:12:56,692 --> 00:12:57,742
Wait, nataya,

655
00:12:57,818 --> 00:12:59,988
you're a--you're a freshette?

656
00:13:00,070 --> 00:13:01,780
I mean, why are you

657
00:13:01,864 --> 00:13:03,534
sucking up to those guys?

658
00:13:03,616 --> 00:13:04,826
You don't need them.

659
00:13:04,909 --> 00:13:05,699
Look, if I'm gonna be

660
00:13:05,784 --> 00:13:06,004
invited to the cool parties,

661
00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:07,700
invited to the cool parties,

662
00:13:07,786 --> 00:13:08,826
then I got to help the guys

663
00:13:08,913 --> 00:13:10,543
with small errands.

664
00:13:10,623 --> 00:13:11,583
Unlike you,

665
00:13:11,665 --> 00:13:11,995
I am not gonna get invited

666
00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:12,920
I am not gonna get invited

667
00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:14,540
because Braxton likes me.

668
00:13:14,627 --> 00:13:14,917
Whoa, wait.

669
00:13:15,002 --> 00:13:17,552
What are you talking about?

670
00:13:17,630 --> 00:13:18,000
Braxton's feeling you.

671
00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:18,590
Braxton's feeling you.

672
00:13:18,672 --> 00:13:19,342
It's the only reason

673
00:13:19,423 --> 00:13:19,923
why he let Keenan

674
00:13:20,007 --> 00:13:21,677
into the fresh five,

675
00:13:21,759 --> 00:13:23,089
to get to you.

676
00:13:23,177 --> 00:13:23,997
Wow.

677
00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:24,300
Wow.

678
00:13:24,386 --> 00:13:25,926
I mean, even though he's totally

679
00:13:26,013 --> 00:13:27,393
superficial, arrogant,

680
00:13:27,473 --> 00:13:28,813
stands for, like, nothing,

681
00:13:28,891 --> 00:13:30,001
I mean, it is kind of flattering

682
00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:31,730
I mean, it is kind of flattering

683
00:13:31,810 --> 00:13:33,560
that he's feeling me.

684
00:13:33,646 --> 00:13:34,766
Speaking of feelings,

685
00:13:34,855 --> 00:13:35,435
Keenan's gonna be crushed

686
00:13:35,523 --> 00:13:36,003
if he finds out,

687
00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:36,360
if he finds out,

688
00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:37,900
so don't say anything.

689
00:13:37,983 --> 00:13:38,903
Okay.

690
00:13:38,984 --> 00:13:42,004
Okay.

691
00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:42,320
Okay.

692
00:13:42,404 --> 00:13:43,114
Hey, nataya,

693
00:13:43,197 --> 00:13:43,947
these are spearmint

694
00:13:44,031 --> 00:13:45,321
not peppermint.

695
00:13:45,407 --> 00:13:47,487
I am so sorry.

696
00:13:47,576 --> 00:13:47,996
I'll get you the right ones,

697
00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:48,910
I'll get you the right ones,

698
00:13:48,994 --> 00:13:49,164
okay?

699
00:13:49,245 --> 00:13:51,495
Okay.

700
00:13:51,580 --> 00:13:52,500
Oh, that's cute.

701
00:13:52,581 --> 00:13:54,001
Yeah, that's real cute.

702
00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:55,580
Yeah, that's real cute.

703
00:13:55,668 --> 00:13:56,748
That is so cool.

704
00:13:56,835 --> 00:13:59,995
Being cool, I love it.

705
00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:00,970
Being cool, I love it.

706
00:14:01,048 --> 00:14:01,798
Yeah, you keep

707
00:14:01,882 --> 00:14:03,802
telling yourself that.

708
00:14:03,884 --> 00:14:05,974
Dr. Reed,

709
00:14:06,053 --> 00:14:06,553
what are you doing here?

710
00:14:06,637 --> 00:14:07,847
Hey, there.

711
00:14:07,930 --> 00:14:09,680
I'm here to support Carla.

712
00:14:09,765 --> 00:14:10,385
I heard this conference

713
00:14:10,474 --> 00:14:11,604
was pretty good.

714
00:14:11,684 --> 00:14:12,004
Ooh.

715
00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:12,430
Ooh.

716
00:14:12,518 --> 00:14:13,018
Oh, Gabby,

717
00:14:13,102 --> 00:14:13,812
you look kind of tired there.

718
00:14:13,894 --> 00:14:14,814
I was up all night

719
00:14:14,895 --> 00:14:15,765
reading these self-help books,

720
00:14:15,854 --> 00:14:17,614
and I was more confused

721
00:14:17,690 --> 00:14:18,000
than ever, so I stayed up

722
00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:18,270
than ever, so I stayed up

723
00:14:18,357 --> 00:14:18,817
even later watching

724
00:14:18,899 --> 00:14:19,649
the notebook.

725
00:14:19,733 --> 00:14:20,403
And that made me depressed,

726
00:14:20,484 --> 00:14:21,034
because I don't have

727
00:14:21,110 --> 00:14:21,490
a love like that.

728
00:14:21,569 --> 00:14:22,439
So I ended up confused,

729
00:14:22,528 --> 00:14:23,108
depressed, and exhausted.

730
00:14:23,195 --> 00:14:23,995
I'm tired.

731
00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:25,280
I'm tired.

732
00:14:25,364 --> 00:14:25,994
And what makes that different

733
00:14:26,073 --> 00:14:29,623
than any other day?

734
00:14:29,702 --> 00:14:30,002
Welcome again, ladies.

735
00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:31,370
Welcome again, ladies.

736
00:14:31,453 --> 00:14:31,953
Yesterday our panelists

737
00:14:32,037 --> 00:14:33,907
had some differing

738
00:14:33,998 --> 00:14:34,918
points of view.

739
00:14:34,999 --> 00:14:35,999
[Laughs]

740
00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:36,710
[Laughs]

741
00:14:36,792 --> 00:14:37,502
So today they'll be

742
00:14:37,585 --> 00:14:39,035
taking your questions.

743
00:14:39,128 --> 00:14:41,008
So let's get started.

744
00:14:41,088 --> 00:14:41,918
Questions?

745
00:14:42,006 --> 00:14:43,966
Uh, Dr. Stokes,

746
00:14:44,049 --> 00:14:44,799
um, I was wondering

747
00:14:44,883 --> 00:14:45,263
how to keep my man

748
00:14:45,342 --> 00:14:45,932
from straying.

749
00:14:46,010 --> 00:14:48,000
That is an easy one.

750
00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,930
That is an easy one.

751
00:14:50,014 --> 00:14:52,024
A man only strays

752
00:14:52,099 --> 00:14:53,729
when he's not satisfied.

753
00:14:53,809 --> 00:14:53,999
So there are no tricks for that.

754
00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,060
So there are no tricks for that.

755
00:14:56,145 --> 00:14:57,765
You need to dedicate yourself

756
00:14:57,855 --> 00:14:58,855
to making your man happy.

757
00:14:58,939 --> 00:14:59,999
[Clears throat]

758
00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,400
[Clears throat]

759
00:15:02,484 --> 00:15:03,784
Dr. Reed?

760
00:15:03,861 --> 00:15:05,741
Yes, okay.

761
00:15:05,821 --> 00:15:06,001
Thank you.

762
00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:07,820
Thank you.

763
00:15:07,906 --> 00:15:09,236
I think that I established

764
00:15:09,325 --> 00:15:10,695
yesterday that being

765
00:15:10,784 --> 00:15:12,004
happy with yourself

766
00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:12,290
happy with yourself

767
00:15:12,369 --> 00:15:13,329
is a precondition

768
00:15:13,412 --> 00:15:14,542
for a happy relationship.

769
00:15:14,622 --> 00:15:16,672
And no one can do that for you

770
00:15:16,749 --> 00:15:17,539
but you.

771
00:15:17,625 --> 00:15:17,995
Hmm.

772
00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:18,500
Hmm.

773
00:15:18,584 --> 00:15:19,674
All right.

774
00:15:19,752 --> 00:15:21,962
Here we go.

775
00:15:22,046 --> 00:15:22,956
Dr. Stokes,

776
00:15:23,047 --> 00:15:23,997
I'm a successful businesswoman,

777
00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:24,840
I'm a successful businesswoman,

778
00:15:24,923 --> 00:15:26,683
and my boyfriend

779
00:15:26,759 --> 00:15:28,469
seems threatened by my success.

780
00:15:28,552 --> 00:15:28,972
What should I do?

781
00:15:29,053 --> 00:15:30,003
Play it down a little

782
00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:31,850
Play it down a little

783
00:15:31,930 --> 00:15:32,930
and use your time

784
00:15:33,015 --> 00:15:34,975
boosting him up.

785
00:15:35,059 --> 00:15:35,999
Okay.

786
00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:36,810
Okay.

787
00:15:36,894 --> 00:15:38,694
Wait a minute.

788
00:15:38,771 --> 00:15:41,611
I am a successful businesswoman,

789
00:15:41,690 --> 00:15:42,000
and my husband supports me.

790
00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,230
And my husband supports me.

791
00:15:44,318 --> 00:15:44,938
He is proud

792
00:15:45,027 --> 00:15:46,397
of my accomplishments

793
00:15:46,487 --> 00:15:46,987
the same way

794
00:15:47,071 --> 00:15:48,001
that I am proud of his.

795
00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:49,410
That I am proud of his.

796
00:15:49,490 --> 00:15:50,780
Oh, how did you

797
00:15:50,866 --> 00:15:51,946
trick him into that?

798
00:15:52,034 --> 00:15:53,294
Oh.

799
00:15:53,369 --> 00:15:53,999
Excuse me, Dr. Stokes,

800
00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,120
Excuse me, Dr. Stokes,

801
00:15:56,205 --> 00:15:57,785
do you have a woman?

802
00:15:57,873 --> 00:16:00,003
Well, I'm sorry, sir.

803
00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:00,080
Well, I'm sorry, sir.

804
00:16:00,167 --> 00:16:00,577
I don't believe

805
00:16:00,668 --> 00:16:02,088
that's any of your business.

806
00:16:02,169 --> 00:16:03,089
Well, you're up here

807
00:16:03,170 --> 00:16:05,510
as an expert on relationships.

808
00:16:05,589 --> 00:16:05,999
And I figured the audience

809
00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:06,970
and I figured the audience

810
00:16:07,049 --> 00:16:07,419
would like to know

811
00:16:07,508 --> 00:16:09,298
how yours is working out.

812
00:16:09,385 --> 00:16:11,845
Yeah, uh-huh.

813
00:16:11,929 --> 00:16:11,999
Oh, I see.

814
00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:13,930
Oh, I see.

815
00:16:14,014 --> 00:16:16,354
You two are together.

816
00:16:16,433 --> 00:16:18,003
This must be Mr. Reed.

817
00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:18,730
This must be Mr. Reed.

818
00:16:18,811 --> 00:16:20,561
Dr. Reed.

819
00:16:20,646 --> 00:16:23,996
It's Dr. Reed.

820
00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:24,860
It's Dr. Reed.

821
00:16:24,942 --> 00:16:27,072
Oh, he fancy, huh?

822
00:16:27,152 --> 00:16:27,952
Mm-hmm.

823
00:16:28,028 --> 00:16:28,948
Oh, I see

824
00:16:29,029 --> 00:16:29,999
what you're trying to do.

825
00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:30,700
What you're trying to do.

826
00:16:30,781 --> 00:16:31,281
You're both trying

827
00:16:31,365 --> 00:16:32,735
to ambush me.

828
00:16:32,825 --> 00:16:33,735
No, no, not at all.

829
00:16:33,826 --> 00:16:34,736
I'm just trying

830
00:16:34,827 --> 00:16:35,367
to make the point that,

831
00:16:35,452 --> 00:16:35,992
while your methods may work

832
00:16:36,078 --> 00:16:37,078
for some people,

833
00:16:37,162 --> 00:16:39,462
all men don't necessarily

834
00:16:39,540 --> 00:16:40,290
have to be tricked

835
00:16:40,374 --> 00:16:41,504
into loving their woman

836
00:16:41,583 --> 00:16:42,003
unconditionally or supporting

837
00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:43,090
unconditionally or supporting

838
00:16:43,168 --> 00:16:43,708
them when they're doing

839
00:16:43,794 --> 00:16:45,214
something they love.

840
00:16:45,295 --> 00:16:46,045
I mean, if someone loves you,

841
00:16:46,130 --> 00:16:47,920
the support comes automatically.

842
00:16:48,006 --> 00:16:51,676
It's either there or it isn't.

843
00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:52,470
Okay.

844
00:16:52,553 --> 00:16:54,003
[Applause]

845
00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:54,140
[Applause]

846
00:16:54,221 --> 00:16:57,931
And that is why Dr. Reed

847
00:16:58,016 --> 00:16:59,846
and myself have been married

848
00:16:59,935 --> 00:16:59,995
for almost ten years.

849
00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:01,600
For almost ten years.

850
00:17:01,687 --> 00:17:05,567
You see, I am worthy,

851
00:17:05,649 --> 00:17:05,999
empowered, and I am not

852
00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:08,240
empowered, and I am not

853
00:17:08,318 --> 00:17:10,568
by myself.

854
00:17:10,654 --> 00:17:11,574
So...

855
00:17:11,655 --> 00:17:11,995
Sorry, I just have bad knees,

856
00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:12,240
sorry, I just have bad knees,

857
00:17:12,322 --> 00:17:14,912
but I'm fine.

858
00:17:14,992 --> 00:17:15,452
Um, I'm not saying

859
00:17:15,534 --> 00:17:17,084
that what Dr. Stokes

860
00:17:17,161 --> 00:17:18,001
said is wrong.

861
00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:18,410
Said is wrong.

862
00:17:18,495 --> 00:17:19,405
What I'm saying is that

863
00:17:19,496 --> 00:17:20,956
there's not just one way.

864
00:17:21,039 --> 00:17:23,039
There's not a right way

865
00:17:23,125 --> 00:17:23,995
to find the love

866
00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:24,790
to find the love

867
00:17:24,877 --> 00:17:26,247
that you're looking for.

868
00:17:26,336 --> 00:17:28,546
Right?

869
00:17:28,630 --> 00:17:30,000
Oh, I've got it.

870
00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:31,050
Oh, I've got it.

871
00:17:31,133 --> 00:17:33,893
And see, it would be rude

872
00:17:33,969 --> 00:17:35,389
to drop the mic.

873
00:17:35,471 --> 00:17:36,001
So I'm just going

874
00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:36,810
so I'm just going

875
00:17:36,889 --> 00:17:38,889
to set it down.

876
00:17:43,395 --> 00:17:44,345
Oh, Mr. Palmer,

877
00:17:44,438 --> 00:17:46,058
those kicks are fire, son.

878
00:17:46,148 --> 00:17:47,998
Yeah.

879
00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:48,070
Yeah.

880
00:17:48,150 --> 00:17:50,990
Keenan, you sound ridiculous.

881
00:17:51,069 --> 00:17:51,989
Hi, misery.

882
00:17:52,070 --> 00:17:54,000
Do you have company?

883
00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:54,870
Do you have company?

884
00:17:54,948 --> 00:17:55,868
No, I'm serious.

885
00:17:55,949 --> 00:17:56,739
You're taking this

886
00:17:56,825 --> 00:17:58,905
fresh five thing way too far.

887
00:17:58,994 --> 00:18:00,004
Am I really?

888
00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:00,750
Am I really?

889
00:18:00,829 --> 00:18:03,169
Take a picture real quick.

890
00:18:03,248 --> 00:18:04,038
Okay, okay.

891
00:18:04,124 --> 00:18:06,004
Look, I'm really not

892
00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:06,500
look, I'm really not

893
00:18:06,585 --> 00:18:07,495
supposed to be telling you this,

894
00:18:07,586 --> 00:18:08,126
but the only reason

895
00:18:08,212 --> 00:18:09,962
you got into fresh five

896
00:18:10,047 --> 00:18:10,957
is because Braxton

897
00:18:11,048 --> 00:18:11,998
has a crush on me.

898
00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:12,130
Has a crush on me.

899
00:18:12,216 --> 00:18:13,466
Really?

900
00:18:13,550 --> 00:18:15,470
Okay, so the most popular kid

901
00:18:15,552 --> 00:18:17,432
in school has a crush on you,

902
00:18:17,513 --> 00:18:18,003
so he let the coolest guy

903
00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:18,720
so he let the coolest guy

904
00:18:18,806 --> 00:18:20,516
in school join his club.

905
00:18:20,599 --> 00:18:23,139
Aw, yeah, you trippin', son.

906
00:18:23,227 --> 00:18:23,997
Keenan, it's true.

907
00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:24,440
Keenan, it's true.

908
00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:25,020
Yeah, I know

909
00:18:25,103 --> 00:18:25,523
you believe that.

910
00:18:25,604 --> 00:18:27,234
That's what's cute about you.

911
00:18:27,314 --> 00:18:29,234
Yo, yo, k-swag.

912
00:18:29,316 --> 00:18:29,996
What up?

913
00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:30,030
What up?

914
00:18:30,108 --> 00:18:30,318
B.

915
00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:32,110
See, he even gave me a nickname.

916
00:18:32,194 --> 00:18:32,954
Oh.

917
00:18:33,028 --> 00:18:34,108
So listen to this.

918
00:18:34,196 --> 00:18:35,106
Kaci says the only reason

919
00:18:35,197 --> 00:18:35,997
you let me join fuh-fuh-fuh

920
00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:36,870
you let me join fuh-fuh-fuh

921
00:18:36,949 --> 00:18:37,869
was because you

922
00:18:37,950 --> 00:18:39,120
have a crush on her.

923
00:18:39,201 --> 00:18:42,001
She trippin', right?

924
00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:42,660
She trippin', right?

925
00:18:42,746 --> 00:18:44,996
Right?

926
00:18:45,082 --> 00:18:46,542
Right, son?

927
00:18:46,625 --> 00:18:47,995
Okay, look, I'm really sorry

928
00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:48,210
Okay, look, I'm really sorry

929
00:18:48,293 --> 00:18:50,093
to let you down and all,

930
00:18:50,170 --> 00:18:51,550
but I would never

931
00:18:51,630 --> 00:18:52,210
date a guy like you.

932
00:18:52,297 --> 00:18:53,997
Oh.

933
00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:55,180
Oh.

934
00:18:55,259 --> 00:18:56,219
Oh, so it's like that, huh?

935
00:18:56,301 --> 00:19:00,001
Oh, it's like that, fo' sho'.

936
00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:00,390
Oh, it's like that, fo' sho'.

937
00:19:00,472 --> 00:19:03,312
Man, I thought y'all guys

938
00:19:03,392 --> 00:19:05,232
thought I was cool.

939
00:19:05,310 --> 00:19:06,000
Here's your jacket back.

940
00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:07,400
Here's your jacket back.

941
00:19:09,690 --> 00:19:10,610
Yo, Trevor,

942
00:19:10,691 --> 00:19:11,691
what's up with your sister?

943
00:19:11,775 --> 00:19:11,995
And what size jacket

944
00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:13,610
and what size jacket

945
00:19:13,694 --> 00:19:15,784
do you wear?

946
00:19:18,448 --> 00:19:19,118
Y'all ain't gonna

947
00:19:19,199 --> 00:19:21,159
graduate anyway.

948
00:19:22,619 --> 00:19:23,949
All right.

949
00:19:24,037 --> 00:19:25,537
Alexis is snoring.

950
00:19:25,622 --> 00:19:26,252
The twins aren't

951
00:19:26,331 --> 00:19:26,711
making any noise.

952
00:19:26,790 --> 00:19:27,170
It is safe to say

953
00:19:27,249 --> 00:19:29,919
that we are alone.

954
00:19:30,002 --> 00:19:32,672
Mm.

955
00:19:32,754 --> 00:19:33,764
Mm.

956
00:19:33,839 --> 00:19:35,219
So would you like to play

957
00:19:35,299 --> 00:19:35,999
doctor, doctor?

958
00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:36,300
Doctor, doctor?

959
00:19:36,383 --> 00:19:37,433
Mm.

960
00:19:37,509 --> 00:19:38,719
Well, you know, my exam room

961
00:19:38,802 --> 00:19:39,262
is right upstairs.

962
00:19:39,344 --> 00:19:40,264
Oh.

963
00:19:40,345 --> 00:19:41,965
You know, I think we should

964
00:19:42,055 --> 00:19:42,755
skip the pre-op,

965
00:19:42,848 --> 00:19:43,968
because I have a very early

966
00:19:44,057 --> 00:19:45,057
morning tomorrow.

967
00:19:45,142 --> 00:19:45,642
Yeah, how early?

968
00:19:45,726 --> 00:19:47,266
Very early.

969
00:19:47,352 --> 00:19:48,002
I can't sleep.

970
00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:49,900
I can't sleep.

971
00:19:49,980 --> 00:19:50,520
I'm gonna watch a movie.

972
00:19:50,606 --> 00:19:51,856
[Sighs]

973
00:19:51,940 --> 00:19:53,400
I swear they have kiss radar.

974
00:19:53,483 --> 00:19:54,003
Oh, it's okay, sweetie.

975
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:55,280
Oh, it's okay, sweetie.

976
00:19:55,360 --> 00:19:57,240
You can't sleep?

977
00:19:57,321 --> 00:19:58,241
Hey, you guys

978
00:19:58,322 --> 00:19:58,782
are watching a movie?

979
00:19:58,864 --> 00:19:59,534
Okay, if we're watching a movie,

980
00:19:59,615 --> 00:19:59,995
then I get to pick

981
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:00,870
then I get to pick

982
00:20:00,949 --> 00:20:01,579
because Keenan picked last time.

983
00:20:01,658 --> 00:20:02,738
W-wait.

984
00:20:02,826 --> 00:20:03,326
Who said we were

985
00:20:03,410 --> 00:20:04,950
watching a movie?

986
00:20:05,037 --> 00:20:05,747
What's going on?

987
00:20:05,829 --> 00:20:05,999
You're making too much noise.

988
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:07,460
You're making too much noise.

989
00:20:07,539 --> 00:20:08,289
It's a movie night.

990
00:20:08,373 --> 00:20:09,253
It is?

991
00:20:09,333 --> 00:20:10,423
Movie night?

992
00:20:10,500 --> 00:20:11,210
This late at night?

993
00:20:11,293 --> 00:20:12,003
Our family is cool.

994
00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:13,210
Our family is cool.

995
00:20:13,295 --> 00:20:14,835
Oh.

996
00:20:14,922 --> 00:20:15,422
Come on, sweetie.

997
00:20:15,505 --> 00:20:16,665
All righty, then.

998
00:20:16,757 --> 00:20:17,717
Get on in here.

999
00:20:17,799 --> 00:20:17,999
Well, after we pick

1000
00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:18,720
Well, after we pick

1001
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:19,340
the movie, we should

1002
00:20:19,426 --> 00:20:20,386
make some popcorn.

1003
00:20:20,469 --> 00:20:21,179
Mm.

1004
00:20:21,261 --> 00:20:22,851
Sure, why not?

1005
00:20:22,930 --> 00:20:23,430
What were you guys

1006
00:20:23,513 --> 00:20:24,003
doing down here anyways?

1007
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:25,220
Doing down here anyways?

1008
00:20:25,307 --> 00:20:26,347
[Clears throat]

1009
00:20:26,433 --> 00:20:30,003
Nothing.

1010
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:30,900
Nothing.

1011
00:20:30,979 --> 00:20:31,689
We were just

1012
00:20:31,772 --> 00:20:32,312
waiting for you guys.

1013
00:20:32,397 --> 00:20:34,477
Yeah.

1014
00:20:34,527 --> 00:20:39,077
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